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More than a year ago, I began looking for way to return Suerk to his home on Hilltop Road. Nursing homes have their place. I do believe that. I know there are people who are best served by them. I had visited Suerk's nursing home enough to know that the staff there are extraordinarily kind and attentive. They love him. But I thought we could do better for him. I was motivated by my notion that he would have more to live for back in the home he loves. I wanted him back with his books, his music, his photos, art and clocks. I wanted him to have access to more than a couple hundred square feet of institutional, nursing home sterility. So beginning in early Spring of '09, Stephen and I went to work preparing the home for his return. To put it politely, the little place on Hilltop Road suffered from a case of deferred maintenance. Suerk calls it benign neglect. Whatever. Nearly every square inch of the home needed attention. So we hired contractors, started with a new roof and worked our way down to the basement. New roof, soffits, gutters, down-spouts, full exterior and interior painting, new flooring, chimney work and foundation repair. The work took about six months. We weren’t certain we would find a way for him to return home, but the work had to be done. We felt the issue of transferring him home would work itself out, eventually. In the meantime, the home repairs would have the place prepared for the patient, or ready for sale, whichever eventuality presented itself. During one of the trips up to supervise the work, we were fortunate enough to coordinate our visit with the visit of three old friends – Ron Simar (aka Dad), Don Hill and Dave Tyson. They drove up to Erie to visit Suerk, and also with the intention of lending a hand with the work on the home. It was on our trip to Erie when a neighbor called with the news the house had been robbed of all its valuables. The nature of our visit was profoundly altered. More on that next time.

Suerk's Discovery

Flat on his back in a bed in a nursing home, Suerk somehow manages to find things in his world that inspire him, and that encourage him to share with others to inspire them. He urged me yesterday to post this link. He has discovered a girl whom he cannot get off his mind. In the word of the sommelier at the Airport Inn Suerk loves to besmirch, "Enjoy!"

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Update

I know my neglecting this blog has some followers wondering if Suerk is alright. Some of you have said so. I’m sorry I may have contributed to what’s already a healthy dose of worry for Suerk. He is doing quite well, all things considered. He thoroughly enjoys the holidays. He doesn’t get depressed. What he loves about this time of year is hearing from ‘his people.’ He thrives on the reports that come with the cards. During our Thanksgiving visit, Stephen and I cleared his bulletin board and surrounding wall of the cards from Christmas 2008, making way for the new mail which will probably remain until next year. That’s how he likes it. Remember, it’s important to use Suerk’s new address (posted on the right column of this page) when writing him. While mail sent to the home at 872 Hilltop will likely get forwarded, it will probably be delayed significantly.

There’s a lot to say about the process that’s going on around Suerk. Don Hill made mention of some of it in the note he wrote last summer. I have been answering the questions those remarks prompt as I am asked, but soon I will offer the details on this blog. Suerk agrees with this. I will begin next time by describing the unfortunate theft at the home on Hilltop Road Don mentioned -- a sad story with a not-so-sad ending.

Until then. . .